oh brah, where you stay?

So I figured I’d give ya’all a quick update on life as I currently know it. So here goes –

When I took the job I am now currently in, I moved to the LA area, or more specifically the Orange County area to live with the old buddy Geoff. Initially it was a tough move for me, as California was a difficult adjustment for me when I was really looking for something different after being in Hawaii for three years and California is different only in that it lacked the local charm and backwoods close proximity of the north shore. So I wasn’t expecting to enjoy myself a whole lot, but honestly I figured life could definitely be worse so I wasn’t complaining.

So it came as a bit of a surprise to me this last week, as I was told by my work I needed to relocate in an eastern direction and I packed up to move, how genuinely attached I’d grown to the area and my friends there. It’s rare to find people that accept you as whole heartedly as my friends did down there, and honestly I feel like I was just getting to know many of them. And despite my tendency to chase adventure on every front which elicits frequent moves, leaving friends has never become easy for me. It was a relatively empty drive Wednesday as I left, and I’m more motivated than ever to settle down and put some roots in somewhere. Even as a single guy, stability is a bit appealing eh’? :)

What then am I doing you might ask? So the plan is to move out east, maybe Boston, maybe DC, maybe anywhere, I’m still deciding, but that’s where I’m headed, sometime in the fall. But Geoff was already off to school again, so the housing situation needed attention, and my solution was to go on a road trip of buddies and friends until I decide to move out east. So I have about 2 months, and right now I’m back up with some Utah buddies, hanging out in Provo now, gonna go drive support car at the Latoja Classic for a Etherington (a 206 mile bike race across 3 states, pretty sweet) visit some old EFY chums, then roll on with a few musts as I make it back across the US (and I’m open to suggestions if you have anything you feel should be on the list)

    Yellowstone
    Mt Rushmore
    Gettysburg (currently reading Killer Angels and I must see)

That’s all I have on the must see list right now, but I’ll have plenty of time I reckon, so give me some suggestions.

Anyway, that’s where I am. Miss my Orange County family out there, and am especially grateful for the friendships they extended to this lil ole missoura farm boy. I continue my nomadic journey, and will keep you posted on how it goes. Much love and aloha. :)

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what makes you happy

so I’m obsessed with my classical music right now. It’s nigh unto 2am and I can’t seem to make myself turn off my Andre Rieu DVD that just came from Amazon yesterday, it the one in the Royal Albert Hall. Quite fantastic. And I’m loving it because of the sheer happiness that overcomes people as they are moved by music, I love that old men find youth again as they waltz around with their wives, and that people’s clapping drives them out of their seats…. all from classical music. It’s amazing to me. I wish that I could have his job, that I was a brilliant musician who just practiced so I could play for people and make them smile like that. I need that job. :)

One more bit on classical music, I have been trying to verse myself a bit more in what we all take for granted, I’m speaking of the great pieces of classical music that have stood for hundreds of years as masterpieces but are largely overlooked by my generation. I picked up the top 100 classical greats, and have to say, I’m shocked at how familiar many of them are, but at the same time, bothered that I don’t know who did what or what they mean. I will make myself be a skosh more cultured. :) But it’s not just culture, it’s appreciation for what we have, I saw a ted.com bit on this by Benjamin Zander (check it here) and came away thinking, we really are richer than we deserve, and it’s so fun to see people come into that appreciation. So yeah, I’m just loving the masterpieces of the music world right now.

that is all.

thx.

 

monsters

so I just decided to sign up for lifelock and looked on their site and honestly couldn’t really tell what they did. I knew I needed some kind of ID fraud help, cause as a youth my elementary school got broken into several times and the sad thing about having a name that puts you at the front of the alphabet, that’s what the robbers get you know? :)

So I sign up anyway with a deal that gets me a year at 99 bones and I decide to try it out and see what it does. Well first they register fraud alerts on the CR’s, then they have CR’s sent to me. Cool I think, this is easy. Then my CR gets here and I look at it, and I am getting taken to town. There are tickets that have gone to collections, cars that have been purchased, and jewelry that is outstanding (the payments, not the jewels). I’m thinking ahhhh freak. So I drop lifelock an email and this dude calls and says hey, we can’t sick the dogs on em because this stuff happened before you got with us, but I’ll jump on the phone with you and we can knock all these out together to get you where you need to be. So there’s this pro chasing down these creditors that aren’t using any fraud detection stuff, and in one night, we get paperwork done on all of them. So I guess for 10 bones a month, not too shabby. The trick will be if it actually gets it off my record and clears my name eh’? I’ll keep you posted.

In the meantime, take a look at your own reports and make sure you’re all up to par. And thus, the moral.

 

holy chimucha, it’s tron2

So I just found this pirated trailer of tron2 or tr2n, and let me just say “YA DANG RIGHT BAYBEE!” I am stoked, it looks so good, and the buzz around it is fantastic. If you’ve never seen the original, shame on you. Playing this game as a kid was a huge part of my appreciation for all things geek, which eventually chose my school and career, so pretty much, I owe my life to tron :) But seriously, I loved this as a kid, and am so stoked to see it getting some attention now. It’s very geeky though, and makes me happy. so…..
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what’chya listenin to?

So…. as geeky as I am, there are still geeky things that I just have never really got into, one such thing has been podcasts. Not necessarily geeky I guess, but it’s the nerd equivalent to traditional radio, so I see it as the tech way to listen to yer favorite shows. So anyway, I’ve never really got into them until I got hooked up with a little 8g Zune for a graduation present, which was arguably the coolest gift I have gotten all year. Well I have much more music than an 8g anything could handle, and I already was toting an iPhone around with me, so I figured I’d use it for jogging or working out cause the form factor was great. Well since I’ve taken my job now, I have a few 1 hour drives a week and then several 15-20 minutes jaunts to a store or friends house. So somewhere along the way I realized I could be using the time for something a bit better than …. well doing nothing with it, and since I’m a big fan of talk radio anyway, I went searching for good podcasts to fill my time on and have since converted the Zune into my 8g’s of podcast loving updated nightly. And since I’ve been through quite a few, I thought I’d share with you what I got and why, so if you decided you wanted to hit it up, you could have a place to start. :) Read the rest of this entry »

 

beauty tip #412

when you are flying and the airport security takes away your mousse, you can just use the body lotion left in your hotel room. A generous application, worked in thoroughly will give body to the hair while leaving it silky smooth. Good two days in a row, though the third day it gets a bit sketchy.

-the beast

 

if I may

I will share a guilty pleasure I have…. cooking blogs. I have never in my life made a recipe from one, but I love to look at them and see the ideas and dream of owning a kitchen one day. How can you not with recipie’s like THIS!

oh pickypalate.blogspot.com how I love thee.

 

oddities

so the other day a buddy calls me up and we decide to go grab some dinner. We go cruising …. TO DISNEYLAND. That’s right, people here all have passes and stuff, so we just cruise into Disneyland, the magical kingdom of america, and eat some gumbo in a breadbowl, ride a few rides, watch the big show, then roll home, just a few hours you know. Who does that? Seriously, who goes to disneyland for dinner. That’s like going to the moon for a sale on sneaks. Very entertaining, but still. :)

 

Coming Out of the Ice - An Unexpected Life

So a few years ago, shoot like seven years ago, a friend of mine while in Ukraine had recommended to me a book called Coming out of the Ice that he had read and said it was inspiring and thought provoking, and yada yada yada. Well at the time I didn’t think much of the recommendation, but as I came to respect this friend more, the book he mentioned stuck with me and I decided I would give it a read someday. Well, seven years later, I finally got around to it. The book is “Coming out of the Ice - An unexpected life by Victor Herman” which I picked up from amazon for around 50 bones (it’s out of print) and went to work.

After charging through this book in a matter of about a weeks worth of evenings I can say it is one of the most perspective changing books I’ve ever read. Well actually, I’m not sure if perspective is the right word, maybe inspiring, maybe gratitude inducing, I don’t know exactly what role it played in me these last few days, but I find myself oddly moved by this mans true story. He tells of struggles he faced in Russian prisons, wrongfully charged and committed and the story is how he lasted through an ungodly amount of time under these circumstances, and how he found his resolve to go on. It caused me to look at the struggles I face and realize how terribly easy it should be for me to just persever, to just suck it up and power through. It makes me much more grateful for the opportunities I have and life and freedoms I’ve enjoyed. I don’t know exactly why it stuck with me so, perhaps its the Russian politics, mentality, and mannerisms that he describes that can only really be understood through experience, or the fact that it’s just a good man book to read, but it is very profound to me.

Victor Herman

Honestly I read a ton of books each year, many good ones, but I can’t tell you when I last read a book that gave such insight and actually moved me. I hope you all get the chance to read it at some point. Be forewarned though, it deals with issues that are a bit unsettling some of them, and theres about a dozen swearwords to watch out for through the course of his story, just so you know. But I would recommend this to anyone.

I don’t know why I’m on a review spree either, it won’t last, but enjoy it while you can. :)

 

my carmax experience

Since I’ve been going through a spree of purchases lately, I thought I’d let you in on the experience a bit and ‘review’ if that’s the only word for it, some of my experiences. And since today was all about the car finishing up, lets start there.

So I bought my car recently from carmax as it was recommended to me by a good friend out here as a decent place to try. So I started by doing my online research, and honestly, everything online feels expensive, and since I’m used to the ole town country style of barter and haggle to get the price down to what we’d think is reasonable, carmax’s one price policy made me a bit apprehensive about the experience. I searched online and found a car that looked good, had a decent asking price, and low miles. The deal looked really good, and carmax has this great policy that says if you don’t like the car for any reason, you can return it within 5 days and the deal is dissolved, no questions asked, you get out of the sale quick. Which in California is very generous because the state has dissolved the 3 day cold feet law that most states still have in place. So with plans to take a monster road trip back to Missouri and back, I figured I would go get the car if I liked it, and take it through the mountains, through the desert, through the hills and back again, and try and load test it, cause if something were going to break I wanted it to break within that 5 day window.

So I went in and the guys there were great. No pressure, a couple of “have you been helped yet”s that stopped with a “yup” and away they went. I test drove the car, liked it, wanted to take it home. I’d lived here for 22 hours, and hadn’t yet started the job that was promising to provide money to make the payments, but they ran a credit check, pulled some strings to get me through the residence drama, and I signed away. They took care of all the checks and registration stuff for me, and I was outta there with plates on the car and then drove it 4000 miles in a week. The car was great, I really like it, a few quirks that I would do differently, but I wanted something modest and comfortable that didn’t run 20k+ to get. This was it.

Knowing that I was going to keep the car, I let the 5 day window close, and fell back on the 30 day “we’ll fix anything” warranty that came stock with the purchase. So after 4,000 miles, and a few potholes, the alignment was off, not bad, but it pulled to the right a bit, and my passenger side window wasn’t going up and down like it should. So I called them and they said they could fix it, just bring it in sometime before 6pm, well I countered with I work all day every day, what else you got, to which they countered bring it in anytime before 9pm, get a loaner, and we’ll fix it and get it back to you. Sweet! I cruised in, picked up a granny impala on saturday morning with the promise that my car would be taken care of first thing Monday morning. Monday came and I got about 4 calls from Ephraim, the mechanic, letting me know how the car was doing, that they ran into a bad part, and were reordering, but Tuesday it’d be ready he guessed. Well, it wasn’t fixed till today (wednesday) but it wasn’t too big of a deal, I had a car still, and they gave it to me with a full tank of gas and no obligation to refill it before I returned it, but it was a bit of an inconvenience.

So I went in today, returned the loaner, again with no questions or problems, and picked up my car. The window worked perfect, they balanced and rotated the tires and fixed the alignment. Great. They also refilled my gas tank (which was on empty) and washed the car (which after the road trip was noticable) and I drove outta there a day later than I wanted, but a huge fan of carmax. Seriously, with the extra 60 bones to fill the gas tank and 30 minutes to wash the outside and vacuum the inside of my car, they bought me for good. Best experience buying a car ever. It’s nice to buy something of that magnitude and be worry free. If somethings wrong, they’ll fix it, if somethings not just there, they take care of it. I love it. So sorry if this sounds testimonial ish, but the experience of buying has made the car. wtg carmax.